why do you like hole so much? courtney love is a slut@Anonymous
What's your opinion on friends with benefits? I like your responses.@Anonymous
It could work out. I’ve done it before. But I don’t guarantee it working out long term. It’s a very confusing label. I personally hate labels on any kind of relationship, but when you hear those words you think of being something MORE than friends. Already friends but want something physical? In between a relationship and just being casual or good friends? Sometimes one person catches feelings and another gets hurt. Or you drift apart after everything that’s happened between you and it becomes awkward. And sometimes, you mess around, hook up, get over it and out of your system and never speak of it again. Like it never happened. And sometimes, you both realize you want a relationship or something more than just physical. There are many scenarios and several different outcomes, good and bad.
Either way, my opinion bottom line, and maybe advice I guess, is be careful. Be safe, mature/responsible, and be trusting of the person. If you have preferences on whether you want people to know or not know, lay them out before and after it happens. You’re supposed to be “friends” so they better at least respect what you say and think about the situation. And if they don’t well honey, they’re not worth it.
I dont really know how I feel about dating.. How many people have you dated and honestly thought you want to spend your time with them?@Anonymous
Well, dating isn’t for everyone and it should never feel forced. Do it because you want to and are comfortable with it. You will know when there is no hesitation, no sense of danger, no precautions.
There were many times in my life when I thought I’d never find someone to be myself with and not feel ugly or weird or stupid. And then a year and a half ago, I met a guy at school who I never thought I’d be more than friends with. We became best friends and time spent with him, was the best time spent with anyone. You know you’ve found someone special when you can do anything and nothing with the same person and it’d still feel the same to you. It’d still feel like the best times of your life.
To this day he remains the best friend I’ve ever had. And I’m in love with him for many reasons, but one specific one is that he makes me feel like I’m the most amazing person in the world. He thinks I’m beautiful and funny and smart and we can talk about music for hours. I’m Jasmine Romo, and to him that’s the best thing I could ever be.
We’ve had our many ups and downs but we still overcome them. Even with pain in our hearts and tears in our eyes. He is the most important thing in my life right now. I would like to think he saved me from myself and I would like to think I might’ve helped him out in some ways, even if they were small.
Bottom line… You can feel it. When that person makes you feel surreal and life seems grand and beautiful… You will know because you feel it inside you.
Also I forgot to add, I’ve dated about 5 or 6 people and none of them ever amounted or were near to who I have my eyes on right now. Going through assholes before getting to him… best wait of my life.
are you single? Or seeing anyone special@Anonymous
I am seeing someone I really love. It’s… complicated and we’re in a weird, confusing place right now, but whatever it is, I’d gladly go through with it with him.
hi! how's everything going for you ?@mayan-ek
Pretty good actually!